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Name: ~馨~
Nick: ~Sunny~ ~Jam~
Date Of Birth: 08 Jan
Hometown: 厦门 China
Campus: Ngee Ann Polytechnic
Email: helena1987@msn.com

[description]
I am an ordinary young woman who have been studying in Singapore for 5 years. Having a wealthy family, i do not have any financial burden since i was born. All my friends treat me very well, my relatives like me a lot, too. Sometimes i feel like i'm a psychologist because people like to tell me their problems and ask for my suggestions, which i have the ability to help them. Nevertheless, who is able to listen to me and solve my problems?

[loves]
Men
Interior Design
Strawberry
Snoopy,Woodstock,Peanuts Family
Rainy days
Movies
Musics
Plants
Chocolates
Ice-creams
......

[hates]
Exams
Snakes
Swimming
Cheat
......

archives

date: 04 December 2005
date: 25 June 2006
date: 16 July 2006
date: 03 September 2006
date: 04 March 2007
date: 15 April 2007
date: 06 May 2007
date: 27 May 2007
date: 03 June 2007
date: 10 June 2007
date: 17 June 2007
date: 24 June 2007
date: 01 July 2007
date: 08 July 2007
date: 29 July 2007
date: 05 August 2007
date: 12 August 2007
date: 19 August 2007
date: 09 September 2007
date: 16 September 2007
date: 23 September 2007
date: 30 September 2007
date: 07 October 2007
date: 04 November 2007
date: 18 November 2007
date: 02 December 2007
date: 16 December 2007
date: 23 December 2007
date: 15 June 2008
date: 29 June 2008
date: 07 September 2008
date: 02 November 2008

日记Chronicles

Saturday, June 9, 2007

Laying beside him, there is a complicated feeling has risen. I don't know how to describe our relationship. Friends, couple, or just just sexual partner? He had said better be just friends than couple to me when we had our first time. At that time, i was a bit disappointed but i have to admit that that's the better way to we don't like to be tied by the other party in the relationship. I enjoy the moment being with him, so does him. To be honest, i didn't get high when having sex with him but i did enjoyed that he kissed me when we were having sex. That makes me feel safe and comfortable. Nevertheless, there is one thing i can't afford to do it wrong, fall in love with him. I just hope that our relationship can last as long as possible.

YX @ 7:41 PM

Sunday, June 3, 2007

Talk to Mum through the phone just now, i realized that she has a strong urge to move out from Xiamen. In my opinion, that's one of purposes she sent me to Singapore. Nowadays, i have been here for almost 5 years, then she wanted to know about how to buy flat, apartment etc. I have to admit that she is more cleaver than i, she always know what she wants and achieves it as soon as possible. I will never be like her, as I'm satisfy with my resent life always and i don't wanna make it better. In fact, my Mum is right, i should keep upgrading my life. There always be something would happen which is out of your expected. Although i don't like the way i live now, i have to adapt myself to it. My family is not poor but Mum still wanna have a better life. Deciding that i will fulfill Mum's wish, since I'm her only daughter.
Goals:
1. become a PR
2. find a good job or find a rich husband
3. buy an apartment
4. help my Mum to apply PR too

YX @ 3:13 PM

1、当你爱上一个男子，千万别去想自己是不是应该矜持一点。爱他就告诉他，有时候男人也很爱虚荣，你的表白会让他的自信达到极点。

2、当你已经不爱他了，那么也用最直接的方式告诉他。别去考虑他会不会脆弱，男人的自尊远比伤痛重要。　

3、当你们已经相爱，那么就要对他信任，有什么想法就告诉他，不管他支持不支持。任何一个男子都希望他的女人依靠他。　　　　

4、在他的朋友面前，要给他十足的地位。面子对男子来说比什么都重要，不要介意在人前当个小女人，要知道小女人都是男人宠出来的。　　　　

5、他在打游戏的时候，不论你有多急的事情，也不要直接去关他的电脑。最好是搂着他，在他耳边轻轻的细语。因为男人对游戏的执迷胜过你看一部精彩的肥皂剧。　　　　

6、男人每个月也有那几天，跟女人差不多，心情无故低落。这个时候不要问他怎么了，只要陪在他身边。做好你自己。　　　　

7、他和朋友出去喝酒、打牌，你不要问他为什么不带你一块前往。男人都愿意做风筝，只要线还在你手里，那么就放他去飞吧。　　　　

8、男人都很懒很笨，尽管他爱你，但是不想费尽心丝讨好你，你所能做的就是在适当的时候给他个明示。男人有时候需要女人给他强有力的当头一棒。　　　　

9、男人不管他外表有多强大，但是骨子里都还是一个孩子。他在任性的时候不要对他大吼大叫，这对他不起做用。最有效的办法是陪他一起疯。等他平静后轻轻的告诉他你很爱他。　　　　

10、男人都是不肯认错的，在他知道错的时候给他一个台阶下。他会知恩图报的。　　　　

体谅一个男人，那就是把他当成你的爱人、情人、哥哥、朋友、父亲、孩子。爱他，不要给他负担，给他自由，给自己自由。做女人要知道什么时候该进什么时候该退。什么时候该挡在他的前面；什么时候该躲在他身后。把他当成你自己一样去爱护，成全了他的幸福，他才会成全你的幸福。

YX @ 1:47 PM